Tuesday, March 25, 2008

选择性缄默症 - Selective Mutism

<CHN> 选择性缄默症





    是一種社交焦慮症,患者有正常説話的能力,但在特定情境下就是說不出口
    目前还沒有找到任何病因,但有证据显示有遗传因素,女性比男性患者较多。




    患者焦虑時通常有以下表现,或会被误为无礼:



    - 觉得难以保持眼神接触。
    - 常常不笑,表情空白。
    - 举止僵硬不自然。
    - 对通常有需要说话的场合,感到特别难以应付。例如学校点名,打招呼,多谢,道别。
    - 比别人更易忧虑。
    - 对噪音和人群更敏感。
    - 感到难以谈论自己和表达感受。


    而正面地,很多患者呈现出:
    - 智力和认知高于常人,好奇。
    - 对他人的想法和感受敏感。
    - 有很好的集中力。
    - 善于辨别是非,有正义感。











        <ENU> Selective Mutism







        is a social anxiety disorder in which a person who is normally capable of speech is unable to speak in given situations.



        Typical sufferers have some of the following traits,




        some of which are often perceived as rudeness:



        - A difficulty in maintaining eye contact
        - A reluctance to smile and a tendency to have a blank facial expressions
        - Stiff, awkward body movements
        - Particular anxiety in situations where speech is normally expected (answering school registers, saying hello, goodbye, thank you, etc.)
        - A tendency to worry about things more than other people
        - A sensitivity to noise and crowds or crowded situations
        - Difficulty with verbal and non-verbal expression
        - Frequent temper tantrums at home
        - Fear of using public restrooms
        - Compulsive traits
        - Clinging behavior





          Extracted from Wikipedia









































          Thursday, March 13, 2008

          Sky Speed Limit

          Do we have speed limit in the air?
          Well I was on a flight back to KL from Miri.
          After landed at LCCT run way the fight attendant announced:
          "We are please to inform that we are 35 minutes earlier then scheduled......"
          Amusing....way over speeding... :-)
          Are they considered punctual?
          They actually departed 10 minutes earlier as well..
          Anyway no complaint here..

          Just to point out that please take note they are not neccesary always delay... :-)

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          Saturday, March 8, 2008

          我说....

          ...虽然我不履行我公民义务
          但在这么多的怨言下走过...我想说的是...
          都这么多年了...作了什么是有眼看的..
          还会有什么也不该有什么奢想吧...
          ...想要更好的明天...
          为什么不尝试改变...
          给他人一次机会呢?
          虽然不知是否会更好...
          但不转变你并不知...

          Friday, March 7, 2008

          Who are you going to vote for?

          Tomolo is the day...
          Everyone is getting excited to exercise their right...
          Who do you cast your vote to...



          I have been travelling between North and Central region recently..
          I felt the emotion of frens in these 2 regions are vast difference...
          Some are extreme dislike oppostion, some are exremely dislike current ruling party.



          In office the mail box is flooded with all the propaganda..



          On the road I saw all the flags and posters..
          In my thought....what a waste...
          Saw those big billboard with all the nice slogans...
          Is that true?
          How true are they?
          If that really true...
          Then how the fact is being/can be derived...



          In TV you saw all the advertisement of them being good...
          Is that neccesary?
          Dont they have better way of spending the money?



          The day...an emotional day...
          For none voter far from home...



          Enjoy the solitude...Ip

          Wednesday, March 5, 2008

          五年一次的施舍,你要吗?





          个人喜欢这张海报。。
          简简单单的文字..却表达了无数的心声.. 感慨.. 无奈..
          有那么的一些儿伤感 ..痛心..



          5yearsdonation







          Tuesday, March 4, 2008

          Sayonara Tokyo

          It is a tiring trip..but it is fun,
          It is
          interesting to see the different Culture/technology of Tokyo..
          'Enjoying' the weather...
          'Tasting' the food... etc

          Meeting people and talking to them
          although sometimes we were not understand each other it is fun..

          Carrying the 13kg backpack walking to train station
          packed with pple was tough..
          But it is actually part and parcel of the trip that you experienced & an achievement

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          Here my last chance to see Mount Fuji....Thanks to the S3 ... =) Timg_1830_1

          .... the end of Tokyo trip report......

          Tokyo Day 8

          It is a very happening last day in Tokyo....
          In the morning, visited to Ameyoko again..
          Too early nothing open yet..
          except the Kebab shop at Ameyoko...
          Kebab. Again is my favorite... =p
          And it tastes exceptionally delicious!!!!
          Damn even now also *slurp* *slurp*
          too bad no photos...because by the time I realised I have already finished enjoying... hahahahaa....

          after enuff shopping ... We went to Odaiba again to visit Megaweb.. Toyota show room... all kinda cars available here....

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          Day 8 is not only about cars..... it is about food! Writing this I am hungry now... this is Japan Pancake! VERY NICE!! Tell me where can i get it...

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          Of course... how could I have missed the Famous GINZA!!

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          And Nissan PIVO2.

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          Tokyo Day 7

          Crazy pple do the crazy thing...
          Woke up early morning,
          Just wanted to try the peak hour human traffic of the public transport.
          somehow i wasnt sure if that was called lucky...
          Public transport are not so crowded with human actually...
          Since it was still very early, no way to go...
          So we went to visit Tsukiji Fish Market...
          I meet a few group Taiwanese Tourists Q in front of 2 Sushi shops...
          After inquire...these shop are recommended by Chai Lan . 蔡澜... =)

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          but I ate from neither of the shops. Instead we chose to eat at a shop which full with rules and regulation displayed at the ouside of the shop...obviously i undertsand none of the rules...

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          After filling the stomach. We then went to electronic town, Akibahara....took some different photos of Akibahara... =)

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          The next stop was to see day time shinjuku...

          At night I went to Harajuku........over there i found a big 100yen shop..... =) and my fav crepe... =p

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